The truth is the reality, either you like it or not, either you believe it or not, it is what it is. It is not pessimistic and it is not optimistic either. Naturally, a bare or naked truth is not so sweet even sometimes fear arises when you come across the truth.
The following are some of the truth of love relationships:
The relationship can never work out, because of jealousy, possessiveness, and domination, the more you put more effort to make it work out the more the frustration because of your expectation to make it work out. When you try it out you will realize that you cannot solve it. It is what it is
The relationship will destroy love and this is one of the reasons for it to remain a misery always, so you may not see happiness in a relationship but frustration is certain. A relationship can't be prepared for because you do not know what you are going to see or meet. How can you prepare for the unknown?
People will encounter boredom in a relationship because the relationship does not allow freedom and the nature of humans are to long or look for the new thing and when there is no freedom to get it, anger, hatred, and jealousy will come.
A relationship is a closed thing in the sense that it does not allow freedom to do whatever you like. And how do you think a free person will feel, being inside a cage? And what do you think will be the person reaction toward the prison? There are no other reactions than anger, hatred or violent
You can't see a relationship without a problem because every relationship arises from compulsions or obsession and this will give birth to possessiveness and domination and remember nobody likes to be possessed or to be dominated because we are not an object. You will encounter love and hatred in relationships and that is the paradox of relationship.
Do not believe this but go and learn, one learns only by experience because truth is subjectivity. Confirm or experiment it whether it is or not then you can reach a conclusion about this truth not before testing it. When you are in a relationship you will get more understanding of this truth and remember to leave your conclusion as a comment on this page.
You don’t need to make this mistake before you can learn from it, although we learn something only when we have experienced it. There is nothing wrong about making a mistake but try not to repeat the same mistake again that is the only stupid thing to do, a mistake is part of the learning process.
Understanding or truth will set you free and remember it is only your personal truth that can set you free.
You can only avoid the misery that is always attached to relationships by not entering into it, but you can just relate, start from friendship then relate with freedom in view but not entering into a relationship and never expect anything to come out of it and anything that you see out of relatedness accept it without complaining it is what it is.
